“Grief started for you long before your loved one entered the care facility. These feelings will continue on after their physical death. The thoughts you have are normal. Remember that you are suffering losses every single day, in some form or another. You probably never intended to be apart from each other until one of you died. Instead, every day, they are dying in front of you on many levels.”

Read this blog addressed to the remaining spouse when a loved moves to a care home…

The Professional Relative Source: Grieving and Coping | The Professional Relative